Appendix 1
The tables below capture some of the key organisations who provide support to the bereaved veteran community, to illustrate the kinds of provision available. This list is not exhaustive and does not include many of the bereavement services available to the general population across the country who can – and do – provide an invaluable support to members of the veteran community who access them.
Key Support Organisations & What They Offer the Veteran Community
Charity/Organisation |
Who They Support |
Services Provided |
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Bereaved families of serving or veteran Armed Forces personnel (adult family members, and those impacted by loss). |
Peer support groups, bereavement events, practical help. |
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Children and young people (0-25) who have lost a parent who served in the British Armed Forces (regular or reserve), regardless of cause of death. |
Three main programmes: Smiles (outings, gifts, respite, fun events), Support (bereavement-counselling, emotional support, guidance for carers), Strides (educational and personal development grants) plus “Springboard.” |
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Scotland-based charity supporting children and young people from Armed Forces/veteran families. |
Mental health & wellbeing services, youth participation, transition support. |
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Children whose parent has died or been seriously injured while serving. |
Bereavement counselling, group holidays, social events, educational visits and support. |
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RAF Personnel and their Families |
Practical advice and support; signposting to other support |
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Army Personnel and their Families |
Practical advice and support; signposting to other support |
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Naval and Marines Personnel and their Families |
Practical advice and support; signposting to other support |
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Bereaved military families, especially with children up to ~19 years. |
Fully funded activity camps offering respite, peer support, and family time. |
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Wider military bereaved community (spouses, partners, grandparents, siblings, etc.). |
Trauma-informed support, listening, advocacy, resource connection, reducing isolation. |
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Children and young people grieving a death, including those in military families. |
Training, local bereavement networks, collaboration and signposting. |
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Anyone who has suffered a bereavement. |
Support services such as helplines and webchats, one-to-one counselling, listening services, including specialist support for children and young people, those recently bereaved, and suicide bereavement. Community projects in support of local grief networks and other on-line guides and resources. |
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Welfare and emotional support for older veterans and their families, including widows/widowers. |
Specifically includes Scotland. |
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Supports widows/widowers of Blesma members after their passing. |
Scotland outreach office included in support network. |
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Support network for anyone who has lost a partner before their 51st birthday. |
Peer to peer support, including a specific military group, organised events, a telephone support line offering counselling, legal and financial support, and other on-line resources. |
MOD / Government Provision: Key Components
Initiative/Mechanism |
What It Does |
Eligibility & Scope (incl. Scotland) |
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Coordinates practical requirements following death, injury or serious illness of a Service person. |
UK-wide, for serving members of the UK Armed Forces. |
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MOD guidance for bereaved families: entitlements, benefits, funerals, practical steps, signposting. |
UK-wide, includes support for children. |
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Scholarships for children of Service Personnel whose death is service-attributable. Covers tuition, maintenance, etc. |
UK-wide; acknowledges SCQF Level 6 in Scotland. |
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Initial welfare support, guidance, referrals, help with education and childcare post-bereavement. |
Available in Scotland via local HIVE or welfare cells. |
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Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement. |
UK-wide, including Scotland. |
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Royal Air Force Community Support
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Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement. |
UK-wide, including Scotland. |
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Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement. |
UK-wide, including Scotland. |
Organisations Specifically Supporting Military Widows and Widowers
Organisation |
Support Provided |
Scotland-Relevance/Notes |
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Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection. |
UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD. |
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Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection. |
UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD. |
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Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection. |
UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD. |
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Advocacy and representation for widows/widowers of military personnel. |
UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD. |



