The tables below capture some of the key organisations who provide support to the bereaved veteran community, to illustrate the kinds of provision available. This list is not exhaustive and does not include many of the bereavement services available to the general population across the country who can – and do – provide an invaluable support to members of the veteran community who access them.

Key Support Organisations & What They Offer the Veteran Community

Charity/Organisation

Who They Support

Services Provided

SSAFA

Bereaved families of serving or veteran Armed Forces personnel (adult family members, and those impacted by loss).

Peer support groups, bereavement events, practical help.

Scotty’s Little Soldiers

Children and young people (0-25) who have lost a parent who served in the British Armed Forces (regular or reserve), regardless of cause of death.

Three main programmes:

Smiles (outings, gifts, respite, fun events), Support (bereavement-counselling, emotional support, guidance for carers), Strides (educational and personal development grants) plus “Springboard.”

Forces Children Scotland

Scotland-based charity supporting children and young people from Armed Forces/veteran families.

Mental health & wellbeing services, youth participation, transition support.

Forces Children’s Trust

Children whose parent has died or been seriously injured while serving.

Bereavement counselling, group holidays, social events, educational visits and support.

RAF Families Federation

RAF Personnel and their Families

Practical advice and support; signposting to other support

Army Families Federation

Army Personnel and their Families

Practical advice and support; signposting to other support

Naval Families Federation

Naval and Marines Personnel and their Families

Practical advice and support; signposting to other support

Families Activity Breaks (FAB)

Bereaved military families, especially with children up to ~19 years.

Fully funded activity camps offering respite, peer support, and family time.

Beyond The Wire

Wider military bereaved community (spouses, partners, grandparents, siblings, etc.).

Trauma-informed support, listening, advocacy, resource connection, reducing isolation.

Child Bereavement UK (Scotland Project)

Children and young people grieving a death, including those in military families.

Training, local bereavement networks, collaboration and signposting.

Cruse Scotland Bereavement Support

Anyone who has suffered a bereavement.

Support services such as helplines and webchats, one-to-one counselling, listening services, including specialist support for children and young people, those recently bereaved, and suicide bereavement. Community projects in support of local grief networks and other on-line guides and resources.

Defence Medical Welfare Service

Welfare and emotional support for older veterans and their families, including widows/widowers.

Specifically includes Scotland.

Blesma, The Limbless Veterans Charity

Supports widows/widowers of Blesma members after their passing.

Scotland outreach office included in support network.

Widowed and Young

Support network for anyone who has lost a partner before their 51st birthday.

Peer to peer support, including a specific military group, organised events, a telephone support line offering counselling, legal and financial support, and other on-line resources.

MOD / Government Provision: Key Components

Initiative/Mechanism

What It Does

Eligibility & Scope (incl. Scotland)

Joint Casualty and Compassionate Centre (JCCC)

Coordinates practical requirements following death, injury or serious illness of a Service person.

UK-wide, for serving members of the UK Armed Forces.

Purple Book Bereavement Guide

MOD guidance for bereaved families: entitlements, benefits, funerals, practical steps, signposting.

UK-wide, includes support for children.

Armed Forces Bereavement Scholarship Scheme

Scholarships for children of Service Personnel whose death is service-attributable. Covers tuition, maintenance, etc.

UK-wide; acknowledges SCQF Level 6 in Scotland.

HIVE/RN Family and People Support

Initial welfare support, guidance, referrals, help with education and childcare post-bereavement.

Available in Scotland via local HIVE or welfare cells.

Army Welfare Service

 

Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement.

UK-wide, including Scotland.

Royal Air Force Community Support

 

Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement.

UK-wide, including Scotland.

Royal Navy & Royal Marines Welfare

Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement.

UK-wide, including Scotland.

Organisations Specifically Supporting Military Widows and Widowers

Organisation

Support Provided

Scotland-Relevance/Notes

Army Widows Association

Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection.

UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD.

Royal Navy and Royal Marines Widows Association

Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection.

UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD.

RAF Widows Association

Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection.

UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD.

War Widows Association

Advocacy and representation for widows/widowers of military personnel.

UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD.

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