The tables below capture some of the key organisations who provide support to the bereaved veteran community, to illustrate the kinds of provision available. This list is not exhaustive and does not include many of the bereavement services available to the general population across the country who can – and do – provide an invaluable support to members of the veteran community who access them.

Key Support Organisations & What They Offer the Veteran Community

Charity/Organisation

Who They Support

Services Provided

SSAFA

Bereaved families of serving or veteran Armed Forces personnel (adult family members, and those impacted by loss).

Peer support groups, bereavement events, practical help.

Scotty’s Little Soldiers

Children and young people (0-25) who have lost a parent who served in the British Armed Forces (regular or reserve), regardless of cause of death.

Three main programmes:

Smiles (outings, gifts, respite, fun events), Support (bereavement-counselling, emotional support, guidance for carers), Strides (educational and personal development grants) plus “Springboard.”

Forces Children Scotland

Scotland-based charity supporting children and young people from Armed Forces/veteran families.

Mental health & wellbeing services, youth participation, transition support.

Forces Children’s Trust

Children whose parent has died or been seriously injured while serving.

Bereavement counselling, group holidays, social events, educational visits and support.

RAF Families Federation

RAF Personnel and their Families

Practical advice and support; signposting to other support

Army Families Federation

Army Personnel and their Families

Practical advice and support; signposting to other support

Naval Families Federation

Naval and Marines Personnel and their Families

Practical advice and support; signposting to other support

Families Activity Breaks (FAB)

Bereaved military families, especially with children up to ~19 years.

Fully funded activity camps offering respite, peer support, and family time.

Beyond The Wire

Wider military bereaved community (spouses, partners, grandparents, siblings, etc.).

Trauma-informed support, listening, advocacy, resource connection, reducing isolation.

Child Bereavement UK (Scotland Project)

Children and young people grieving a death, including those in military families.

Training, local bereavement networks, collaboration and signposting.

Cruse Scotland Bereavement Support

Anyone who has suffered a bereavement.

Support services such as helplines and webchats, one-to-one counselling, listening services, including specialist support for children and young people, those recently bereaved, and suicide bereavement. Community projects in support of local grief networks and other on-line guides and resources.

Defence Medical Welfare Service

Welfare and emotional support for older veterans and their families, including widows/widowers.

Specifically includes Scotland.

Blesma, The Limbless Veterans Charity

Supports widows/widowers of Blesma members after their passing.

Scotland outreach office included in support network.

Widowed and Young

Support network for anyone who has lost a partner before their 51st birthday.

Peer to peer support, including a specific military group, organised events, a telephone support line offering counselling, legal and financial support, and other on-line resources.

MOD / Government Provision: Key Components

Initiative/Mechanism

What It Does

Eligibility & Scope (incl. Scotland)

Joint Casualty and Compassionate Centre (JCCC)

Coordinates practical requirements following death, injury or serious illness of a Service person.

UK-wide, for serving members of the UK Armed Forces.

Purple Book Bereavement Guide

MOD guidance for bereaved families: entitlements, benefits, funerals, practical steps, signposting.

UK-wide, includes support for children.

Armed Forces Bereavement Scholarship Scheme

Scholarships for children of Service Personnel whose death is service-attributable. Covers tuition, maintenance, etc.

UK-wide; acknowledges SCQF Level 6 in Scotland.

HIVE/RN Family and People Support

Initial welfare support, guidance, referrals, help with education and childcare post-bereavement.

Available in Scotland via local HIVE or welfare cells.

Army Welfare Service

 

Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement.

UK-wide, including Scotland.

Royal Air Force Community Support

 

Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement.

UK-wide, including Scotland.

Royal Navy & Royal Marines Welfare

Counselling, wellbeing support, referrals post-bereavement.

UK-wide, including Scotland.

Organisations Specifically Supporting Military Widows and Widowers

Organisation

Support Provided

Scotland-Relevance/Notes

Army Widows Association

Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection.

UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD.

Royal Navy and Royal Marines Widows Association

Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection.

UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD.

RAF Widows Association

Volunteer-run emotional and practical support, community connection.

UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD.

War Widows Association

Advocacy and representation for widows/widowers of military personnel.

UK-wide, includes Scotland. Independent but liaises with MOD.

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On Saturday I had the pleasure of joining a Borders veterans’ Big Breakfast in Kelso — a fantastic gathering that brought together veterans from breakfast clubs right across the region.
My thanks to John Greenwell, Veterans Champion for Borders Council, for organising such a welcoming and well‑connected event. It was a valuable opportunity to hear directly from veterans living in the Borders, understand their experiences, and learn more about the support that matters most to them.
It was inspiring to see veterans from different parts of the Borders coming together, sharing stories, and building connections that strengthen the whole community.
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During my visit to Speyside I was reminded of the Highlands' legacy as a military training ground and of the enduring importance of nations standing together in times of crisis.
At the Glenmore Visitor Centre I spent time at the exhibit on Kompani Linge, the Norwegian SOE unit who trained in the Cairngorma before carrying out sabotage missions against Nazi forces. Their bravery- including the famous Operation Gunnerside at Vermork- played a crucial role in preventing the Nazis from.developing an atomic weapon. Their story, honoured hynthe Norwegian Stone, remains deeply inspiring.
I also visited the graves and memorial of Force K6 in Kingussie- 14 soldiers from.pre partition India( now Pakistan) who served with the Royal.Indian Army Service Corps. Their graves were.lovingly tended by local resident Isobel Harling BEM, whose own brother fell in WW2. The beautiful memorial, created eith Jndian stone and Cairngorm granite, was supported by Highland Council and the Scottish Ahlul Bayt Society, with the project led by Colonel Heather Taylor.
A moving day and a powerful reminder of the shared histories and sacrifices that bind nations together.
# KompaniLinge #ForceK6 #Speyside #Remembrance
During my visit to Speyside I was reminded of the Highlands' legacy as a military training ground and of the enduring importance of nations standing together in times of crisis. At the Glenmore Visitor Centre I spent time at the exhibit on Kompani Linge, the Norwegian SOE unit who trained in the Cairngorma before carrying out sabotage missions against Nazi forces. Their bravery- including the famous Operation Gunnerside at Vermork- played a crucial role in preventing the Nazis from.developing an atomic weapon. Their story, honoured hynthe Norwegian Stone, remains deeply inspiring. I also visited the graves and memorial of Force K6 in Kingussie- 14 soldiers from.pre partition India( now Pakistan) who served with the Royal.Indian Army Service Corps. Their graves were.lovingly tended by local resident Isobel Harling BEM, whose own brother fell in WW2. The beautiful memorial, created eith Jndian stone and Cairngorm granite, was supported by Highland Council and the Scottish Ahlul Bayt Society, with the project led by Colonel Heather Taylor. A moving day and a powerful reminder of the shared histories and sacrifices that bind nations together. # KompaniLinge #ForceK6 #Speyside #Remembrance
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It was inspiring to visit Forces Manor in Kincraig, a remarkable not for profit facility that provides the Armed Forces Community with a comfortable place to stay, whether for Adventurous Training or rest and relaxation.
I also visited the Speyside Trust's @badaguish_ centre which offers groups and families a warm.welcome.in the heart of the Cairngorms National Park.
No doubt a warm welcome awaits veterans wishing to experience the peace and majestic scenery of the Highlands.
It was inspiring to visit Forces Manor in Kincraig, a remarkable not for profit facility that provides the Armed Forces Community with a comfortable place to stay, whether for Adventurous Training or rest and relaxation. I also visited the Speyside Trust's @badaguish_ centre which offers groups and families a warm.welcome.in the heart of the Cairngorms National Park. No doubt a warm welcome awaits veterans wishing to experience the peace and majestic scenery of the Highlands.
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Clubs like this make a real difference- tackling isolation, supporting wellbeing and giving veterans a place to share experiences and stay connected.
Huge congratulations to everyone involved. Here's to many mote years of bringing people together in Speyside and beyond. 
#Speyside #Veterans #CommunityMatters #GrantownOnSpey
I was delighted to join the Grantown on Spey veterans club on Wednesday as they celebrated their second birthday- a wonderful milestone for a group that has become an important hub for local veterans and their families. It was fantastic to meet so many people who've helped to build this welcoming group over the past two years. The sense of camaraderie, connection and community dpirit was clear to see. Clubs like this make a real difference- tackling isolation, supporting wellbeing and giving veterans a place to share experiences and stay connected. Huge congratulations to everyone involved. Here's to many mote years of bringing people together in Speyside and beyond. #Speyside #Veterans #CommunityMatters #GrantownOnSpey
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